The Will to Win (Part 6)

6. MAKE FEAR YOUR FRIEND: The one single thing that rules most people's life is fear. Most of what we do throughout our life is fear motivated. We want to succeed because we are afraid of failure, or we want money because we're afraid of poverty...you ever notice that the thing you don't want is the thing that runs your life...you don't want people to control you, so they control you...you don't want to feel weak, so you feel weak...you don't want to be rejected, so your rejected, you don't want to be sick, so your sick, you don't want to be nervous in front of people, so your nervous in front of people, you don't want to be broke, so your broke.

When we're willing to experience the things we don't want in our life then we can be free of them. When we learn to give up all of these fears within our life, then we can be free of them because we are choosing not to fear them but face them as a choice. Whatever we chose to do in life, we must choose it as a choice and not because we are fear motivated. One of the worst things that we can do is let our fears immobilize us into a state of zombie like inaction...you can only have in life what you are not afraid of. Associate with those who are looking for the same things you are trying to achieve and copy that life style, don't let anything or anyone hold you back or talk you down from your desired goals...find someone who has beat the 'fear' bug and get educated on this and learn from it.